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*The "Pillar Ring" is an homage to love and the hope that can emerge from grief. 


You'll get 2 rings with your order, each with a custom size.


The rings are silver casts of the actual engagement rings of Tim Dubitsky and Tobias Wong. The diamond settings were reversed to make them into Tobias' "Killer Ring," one of the most celebrated works of his career as an artist and designer. The name change from "Killer" to "Pillar" is an acknowledgement that your purchase will be an essential part of the support and foundation of my endeavor into grief wellness and nutrition. 


100% of your purchase will go towards my education. Along with the custom sized pair of rings, you will receive:


/ and invitation to a live reading of a selection from my memoir detailing my journey through grief 

/ an invitation to three months of weekly group grief coaching for you or a loved one

/ a memorial post on the As_Long_As.It.Lasts on Instagram 


The first 20 people to order will receive 3 months of private grief coaching for you or a loved one.


* If you are paying through this site, the price includes the fees from the webhost and PayPal. If you are paying direct to my PayPal ("Cash Payment" option at checkout), the price is $500. Please read the section titled FULFILLMENT INSTRUCTIONS.


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Pillar Rings (Memorial Killer Rings)

  • To assure that 100% of your contribution goes where you want it to, the process has two steps:

    1/ Place your order here with ring sizes and shipping information. You'll receive a confirmation email with your order number, links, and instructions.

    2/ Send your order # along with a friends and family payment of $500USD to my Venmo or PayPal.

    Orders will ONLY be fulfilled upon receiving the full payment.

    Did donate via Go Fund Me? Go ahead and place your order here and you can respond to your confimation email with your donation information and your order will be fulfilled!

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